Dating Tips For Men

How Self Esteem can help improve your Dating Approach...

Twenty years ago, when a person complained of depression or unhappiness, helpful friends or therapists might have offered the following counsel:
"Don't dwell on your own misfortune. Try instead to become creatively absorbed in outside interests and external activities. Stop obsessively contemplating your own navel. Develop rewarding interpersonal relationships. Get your mind off yourself. If you merely focus attention elsewhere, your self-centered emotional problems will die of neglect."

Today, however, the same individual, suffering the same depression or unhappiness, would likely hear radically different and quite contradictory suggestions and guidance, such as this:
"Stop worrying about other people. Try instead to build up your own sense of self-worth. Take pride in yourself! Work toward elevating your own self-respect and enhancing your self-image. Your feelings of unhappiness and depression will surely evaporate if you only esteem yourself more highly!"

Clearly, something has changed in the kind of popular advice being given to the forlorn. Instead of espousing that mental health be realized through more objective appraisal of the external world, we now seem preoccupied with the wholly internal effort to elevate our own self-appraisal or "self-worth." Forget our former effort to perceive the universe objectively; today we simply want to feel good about ourselves. It has become increasingly irrelevant whether or not an individual's critical reasoning accurately maps external reality. All that matters, it seems, is his or her internal self-image. Because of this shift in popular emphasis from external preoccupation to internal self contemplation, we find our libraries and bookstores stacked with radically different self help texts from those published a few decades ago. Each new volume proclaims a "breakthrough technique" or "revolutionary method" for conquering our ever-present
doubts about our "true" value. Best-selling books, such as I'm OK, You're OK, have sought to instil within the doubtful individual a belief that, although he may not be perfect, he is at least okay and can thus bestow upon himself a modest allotment of self respect and happiness.

Paragraphs courtesy: http://www.steveosullivan.net/Overcoming-Self-Esteem.pdf

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